Anger & Sorrow: Life's Trickles of Reminders
FROM HEARTBREAK TO HEALING
Designing life with purpose, newness, and value in the aftermath of sexual addiction trauma
"He heals the brokenhearted
and binds up their wounds."
Psalm 147:3
MEET KATHRYN, THE AUTHOR
& HER STORY
Through the voice of personal experience, Kathryn Lackey arose a visionary of what a woman’s design for life can achieve toward her true purpose as she sheds the shame of a partner's addiction. Kathryn is a seasoned designer and entrepreneur who discovered design therapy in a mere survival job following the revelation of her husband’s double life of sexual addiction. In a culture that falls prey to the lucrative temptations of a global sex industry, she shares the negative consequences on relationships through her private journey of a marriage and family shattered as the details of his hidden addiction unraveled. Her story personifies the debilitations and struggles of trauma toward his incarceration and death through the memoir of her experience. Most importantly, her metamorphosis of healing unveils hidden transformation to find forgiveness through knowledge and unleash new opportunities for joy and purpose. Her vision is to now support women to grow through their trauma, relinquish addiction’s shame, and design God's intention for a new life of abundance and victory.
Kathryn is the Founder & Creative Lead of Heart of the Home Styling & Designs, and a Journalism alumni of the Univ. of South Carolina. While defining design as her passion, she considers her greatest love and accomplishment her two children raised alone following trauma and loss from a partner's addiction. In 2024 as she again rejoins her family in Dallas, she adores time with her family and friends, self-care and exercise, volunteer ministry and collaborating with other women who believe God has a plan for their life and business. As she now debuts her personal story of healing, she continues to tweak her life's vision, design for her business, and God's journey for her messages of hope through her books.
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What's Inside...
Kathryn had found—and married—her “officer and a gentleman.” They built a beautiful life and family until slowly, this man began to change. After twenty years of marriage, she knew something was wrong. She remained blind to the depths of his darkness until suddenly, his secret life became publicly exposed.
As the details of his sexual addiction unraveled, Kathryn watched her world suddenly shatter as he faced indictment. She vulnerably shares the events that unfolded along with emotion-filled letters written—but never mailed—to the man who crushed her dreams and destroyed their family. Amid the pain, she found the strength to survive and keep her family safe as he funneled deeper into addiction and his ultimate incarceration. She now shares her journey of faith to help other women find healing, personal strength, and a new self beyond a partner’s shame.
Who will you discover on your journey?
DESIGN FUTURE BLOG
An invitation awaits to grab hope for your journey as you design your unique newness unrestricted by shame.